how come i get more (shitty anon) asks when i’m not even on tumblr than when i was 0_o

also, hi new followers! i’m on a hiatus at the moment, but hopefully maybe see you soon :)

3 months ago with notes (1)  
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Anonymous:
You're the most annoying and worthless type of person in the world. You claim feminism but you represent pessimism.

That’s funny, coz in my opinion the most annoying and worthless type of person in the world is the person who sends anonymous hate-mail to strangers.

3 months ago with notes (6)  
# asks # anonymous # hatemail 








Anonymous:
You shouldn't generalise so much

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what do people honestly expect from sending these vague, passive aggressive asks? i have no idea what they are referring to, and i really don’t care. 

3 months ago with notes (2)  
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Anonymous:
Look at David Bowie or 70's Glam or 80's hair bands - all the guys with teased up hair and tons of make up to make them appear super feminine or androgynous. ( not to mention various fashion and perfume ads over the years) Nobody is going to lose their mind at seeing it, there just apparently isn't enough demand to keep it mainstream for long.

right ok buddy i have no idea what you’re referring to

3 months ago with notes (0)  
# asks # anonymous 








can you lose weight before reviewing any more dresses?

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3 months ago with notes (9)  








I’m actually taking an impulsive hiatus from tumblr. It happened by accident, but I think it’ll be good for me to spend a bit of time off it. Sorry especially to the anons and my friends who have sent me messages that I haven’t replied to! Hope everyone is well, and I’ll see you again soonish, I’m not sure when.

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rozlett:

followthebluebell:

ikaricrossinglines:

thehealthyhusky:

Why I hate going on Facebook.

the thing that upsets me most here is that quite a few of these sample replies show profile photos of children. These people are raising families and kids. And for those fathers with daughters,I wonder how amusing they would find it if they knew there was at least a 1 in 4 chance of their own child being sexually assaulted or raped in her own lifetime.

A real funny joke there, dads.

This is the most terrifying thing I’ve seen today.

I… … Have lost the last of my faith in humanity.

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helloradness:

Girls are told to be skinny but not too skinny and to wear makeup but not so much that guys can tell and to dress in revealing clothes but not too revealing or else you’re a slut and a hundred other contradictory standards so I think guys can deal with being made fun of for wearing fedoras

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Source: gaydicks420 Via: rozlett

neutralmiltankhotel:

straight people couldn’t last a day of Real, Actual Heterophobia. they can’t read a joke made at their expense without kicking up a fuss and resorting to queerphobic behaviours, can you imagine what they’d do if heterophobia began actually affecting their lives outside of a small subsection of a fucking website

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"If you’re struggling, you deserve to make self-care a priority. Whether that means lying in bed all day, eating comfort food, putting off homework, crying, sleeping, rescheduling plans, finding an escape through a good book, watching your favorite tv show, or doing nothing at all — give yourself permission to put your healing first. Quiet the voice telling you to do more and be more, and today, whatever you do, let it be enough. Feel your feelings, breathe, and be gentle with yourself. Acknowledge that you’re doing the best you can to cope and survive. And trust that during this time of struggle, it’s enough."
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newwavefeminism:

Photoshopping does more than alter our sense of body image in terms of weight. It also portrays false ideals of skin pigment.

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dapperdonuts:

This was in my psychology book. I thought it might be useful to those who can’t think if gender-neutral terms.

dapperdonuts:

This was in my psychology book. I thought it might be useful to those who can’t think if gender-neutral terms.

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You look way better without all the cosmetics on your face!

indikos:

noms-heart:

indikos:

Thank you! You have no idea how long I’ve been waiting for some stranger to come around and tell me their opinion on a skill I’ve been perfecting for years! Especially a stranger who has barely any idea what I look like without makeup, seeing is I don’t post my nude face on the internet!

You have no idea how excited I get when someone says "Hey gurl! I know you love cosmetics, you apply them very well after years of study and practice, and it’s a form of self expression, and I know you didn’t ask me, but… all that’s a fucking waste :D"

When you tell someone who chooses to wear cosmetics almost daily that they look “way” better, you’re not being a nice person. You’re telling them that they have bad taste, bad aesthetics, poor perception. It’s like me going into someones bedroom and telling them it looked way better before they decorated it, when they acquired a lot of specific decor, and they’ve been developing the aesthetic I see before me for years.

If you want to tell someone that you think they look nice without makeup, don’t tell them one is better or worse. You have a friend, a girlfriend, a mother, whatever… and you see them without their makeup, just tell them they’re pretty or that their skin is nice.

And don’t tell people they don’t need makeup. You’re assuming you know what their needs are or their personal goals. You can tell them that you’re accepting of them with or without, or just don’t say anything at all. (**I learned this from my boyfriend :3)

Especially not to strangers on the internet

What a cunt. Don’t be such a bitch and take the fucking compliment. They could have not tried to compliment you at all. If you throw a bitch fit when someone says something nice, no one will ever want to again if you’re gonna be a difficult twat.

Wow, so I’m a cunt, a bitch, AND a twat because I’m not suped that some stranger has the audacity to tell me I look good one way or another. Comments on MY appearance are not some fucking commodity that I trip over myself to get to. The shit other people have to say about my choices regarding my aesthetic doesn’t validate my existence.

You’re not gonna sit here and tell me what’s a compliment and what I should be grateful for you dumb ass weak ass bitch

Stay in your lane, clearly commentary and original posts are not your strong points, stick to reblogging gifs of other weak bitches having pillow fights and photos with dumb writing over them because really I’m too fucking kawaii for this shit, really.

I promise you, I am not the one. 

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Source: indikos Via: lattendicht

gynocraticgrrl:

Tough Guise: Violence, Media & The Crisis in Masculinity

with Ed. M, Ph.D Jackson Katz

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jackpowerx:

nudityandnerdery:

Let’s take a moment to talk about this. I mean, because first off, “Tell cars not to hit kids.” Well, yeah, we do that all the fucking time, idiot. Ever seen signs like these?



We have classes and signs and laws about it, and people are constantly reminded. So your argument only works if we put up signs everywhere reminding assholes not to rape. But you’d rather talk about how rape victims have it coming to them.
But the dumbest part of this crap? Roads exist for cars to drive on. Children need to be careful to cross the street because they’re entering into an environment that exists specifically for something that is dangerous to them. The only way this shit is a valid comparison is if you think that bars, parties, and the world in general exists specifically for men to have sex with women. And I gotta break it to the guys who support this stupidity- your dicks are not that important. So knock off this bullshit and stop excusing rapists.

A+++ Commentary!

jackpowerx:

nudityandnerdery:

Let’s take a moment to talk about this. I mean, because first off, “Tell cars not to hit kids.” Well, yeah, we do that all the fucking time, idiot. Ever seen signs like these?

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We have classes and signs and laws about it, and people are constantly reminded. So your argument only works if we put up signs everywhere reminding assholes not to rape. But you’d rather talk about how rape victims have it coming to them.

But the dumbest part of this crap? Roads exist for cars to drive on. Children need to be careful to cross the street because they’re entering into an environment that exists specifically for something that is dangerous to them. The only way this shit is a valid comparison is if you think that bars, parties, and the world in general exists specifically for men to have sex with women. And I gotta break it to the guys who support this stupidity- your dicks are not that important. So knock off this bullshit and stop excusing rapists.

A+++ Commentary!

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