christmas eve what about christmas adam
happy christmas adam to all men’s rights activists
Please stop pestering us with things like this. This has nothing to do with men fighting for their rights. Eve is short for ‘evening’. Please don’t turn activism into a joke. Thanks.
Someone isn’t having a good christmas adam
Some examples of how “men’s rights activists” are threatening and intimidating feminists. There is absolutely no justification for this kind of behavior, and I urge all anti-feminist men (and anti-feminist others) to at the very least not stoop to the level of threatening atrocities or publishing someone’s personal information. I may not agree with your points of contention when it comes to the feminist movement, but that will never cause me to harm you or your family. AVFM and similar MRA groups need to be stopped, for the safety of society as a whole.
From “A Good Men’s Rights Movement is Hard to Find” by Jaclyn Friedman
Also, that incredibly accurate illustration, wow.
They blame it on feminism because if they acknowledged that men cause the problems, then they’d be forced to actually take a look at themselves and that shit ain’t happening any time soon.
Clean privilege is never being turned down for oral sex because you haven’t washed away the protective, lubricative, natural oils beneath your foreskin that are supposed to facilitate sex in the first place (smegma).
Clean privilege is being considered more sexually desirable even when you have horribly disfigured genitals. 56% of American males undergo genital mutilation at birth for supposed ‘hygiene’ reasons, as it removes the ‘need’ to wash. Our society is so obsessed with unnecessary cleanliness that we actually take a knife to our baby boy’s little winkles to achieve it.
Are you fucking kidding me with this? Privilege has to do with the DENIAL OF RIGHTS to the underprivileged. Oral sex, or sex of any kind, is not something you are entitled to. Especially if your partner does not consent for any reason, including if they don’t like the way you smell, taste, etc. That’s rape, dickwad. Raping people is not a right.
I agree that circumcision is wrong and shouldn’t be done, but 1) vaginal circumcision, also usually done for “cleanliness”, is way worse, 2) you are supposed to wash under your foreskin, 3) if your dick smells that horrible, you should probably get it checked out, and 4) oral sex also involves close proximity between the nose and anus. So why don’t you make a huge fart, immediately wipe your ass, and then see how close you can get the tissue to your own nose without wanting to vomit—then realize that your partner has to get probably even closer than that.
If you smell unpleasant, then other people frankly find that, well, unpleasant. It’s not a socially constructed privilege, it’s biology. People have noses. It isn’t hard for most people to bathe or shower. Those who do have difficulties with it are usually homeless, which is an issue with capitalist exploitation, not some invented “clean privilege.” There can also be issues with sensory integration and other disabilities for some people, but there are alternatives. And again, that’s ableism. Not “clean privilege.”
I mean, honestly, what do you want? A revolution of smelly people?
you just know that he’ll be the type of dudebro who thinks ladies’ body hair is gross
So let me get this straight. Not ALL women and feminists fit under these categories, but I think a substantial amount of them do.
- Women are offended by prostitution/escorting
- Women are offended by the idea of RealDolls / Realistic silicon sex dolls / robotic partners with AI when we invent them
- Women are offended by men who buy into the whole “Waifu” and “2D is better than 3DPD” deal
But it’s okay for
- Women to have dildos shaped like gigantic monstrous penises
- Women to have bachelorette parties with mail strippers flapping their dongs around
- Women to fantasize and have posters and magazines about George Clooney, Justin Bieber, Justin Timberlake etc all over the place and be obsessive over them
This seems to me like women KNOW that the only power they have over men is their pussies. And if men generally get passed the desire of sex with them, they have nothing. Because as they SHOULD be equals, if they don’t have pussy to offer, they are no better in any way than my bros. And when I have a problem with my bros, its not like when having a problem with a girlfriend. If it’s over, then that happens. But I don’t cry in bed over them. I don’t spend all my money on them. I don’t pay for their rent, buy them dinners, drive them places, or show them off as trophies.
I am all for women being equals. I have nothing but respect for women who work hard, start a business, enter academia and discover or invent new and amazing things, and dedicate their lives to hard work and passion. But I see a lot of women riding the coattails of men.
If they no longer have sex to offer, and they have to compete with other alternatives men have, the free ride is over. No longer will they be able to ride coattails. Now they will have to WORK. They will have to PROVE their worth. They won’t be able to just get by with minimal effort, or get by because they have big tits or walk around with their clam hanging out.
Nobody gives a single fuck about me unless I PROVE and WORK for what I want. And I have to EARN my respect. I can’t get through life just having my dick hanging out. Any women who is against sex dolls, prostitution and escorting, and the whole “waifu” deal know that the game is over and they are done. The women who DON’T have a problem with these things are too fucking busy WORKING and living a REAL life to feel threatened by this shit, because they have deep and beautiful value.
It must have been fun while it lasted. But you wanted equality and you’ve got it. Get ready to work in the coal mine where nobody cares whether or not you exist. Welcome to the world!
This person thinks they are for equality and yet thinks (cis) women are only worth their genitals? Fuck you dude.
Like they just said “no one cares about me as a person unless I do a thing to make them care” WHILE REDUCING ALL WOMEN TO THEIR SEXUAL PARTS. You think that is RESPECTING us?
I want to cry. “Women know the only power they have over men is their pussies”. They are literally acknowledging that men have power over women in every other walk of life, but still complaining that this is not enough for them (also it’s totally not true, but I’ll get to that later.
They actually think life is easier for women for some unknown reason, while also knowing that women have no social power. I mean despite the fact that even the most privileged women, white women, are on average earning 23% less than men for the same work. We are given shorter hours and get less promotions because “what if you have a baby tho”. Jesus christ. It’s so hard to be a guy though. Only having MOST of the power instead of ALL OF IT.
I mean we clearly have so much sexual control over men. That’s what men like to say to hide the fact that 91% of rape victims are women. And that 1 in 6 women from the USA will experience sexual violence in their life. This person calls that control over men.
This person actually thinks women control men with their vagina. Like if you are seriously worried that women are manipulating you with their magic holes, I am going to have to say you need to talk to someone about that. That says more about you than anyone else.
And for the love of all things good, WHEN HAVE YOU EVER WORKED IN A COAL MINE?? You don’t work in a coal mine. Stop talking about coal mines MRAs, you need to not do that. Unless you actually work in a coalmine. Women work in factories too, boys. Where do you think your clothes are from? This is a class issue not a gender one.
In fact, women aren’t allowed to work in a whole bunch of trades such as mining and that results in them being given pink collar reception jobs which are part time and pay half the wages. So shut up talking to me about the real world.
Have fun with your sex doll and imaginary girlfriend who is supposedly taking all your money. (come on, we all know you don’t have a girlfriend or a job that pays you enough to pay for any of her shit)
I want to add to this that MRAs really aren’t there to help men.
I’m a Big Sister for Big Brothers Big Sisters and we run campaigns nationally every year that specifically target men to sign up to be Bigs. EVERY YEAR. Because the average wait for a girl to be matched to a female Big is 6 weeks after being enrolled. The average time for a boy to be matched with a male Big is 6 months to a year because so few men actually sign up to be mentors and many of them don’t actually complete the one year commitment to their Littles, either.
And this is a deficit that is particularly prevalent at my agency.
Mentoring a kid through a program like BBBS is one of the most rewarding things I have ever done in my life. It has also been the most challenging thing I have ever done in my life. As a Big, I have a direct impact on someone else’s life and little boys, in particular, who do not have a father figure at home benefit very strongly from having a male mentor in their life. They typically do better in school, have a better social life, and are more likely to accomplish long-term goals and take responsibility for their actions and mistakes and learn from them.
If MRAs were ACTUALLY interested in helping men and boys, they would be mentors. But instead they sit on the internet in their Fedoras and bemoan the fact that women aren’t being forced by the government to sleep with them.
(We can argue about whether having MRAs be mentors to impressionable young men is a good idea in a separate post because obviously there are better role models for young men and boys but the point still stands that there are very clear things that MRAs could do to tangibly and immediately help men and boys but instead they focus all of their time and energy denigrating rape victims, berating feminists, and whining about services that specifically serve women.)
So, instead of just hand wringing about how males are targeted and denigrated within all aspects of life, I decided one way of trying to help would be to join the Big Brother Big Sister program. The first meeting I went to explained that there are twice as many boys looking for a match than there are girls. They said it was partly because more females than males volunteer. They didn’t mention how most boys have a mother in there life but no father because of the misandric divorce courts but I digress…
Anyways, as part of the process, I had a one on one interview with a female member of the organisation to assess if I was suitable to be a Big, and if so, they wanted to know about me so they could match me with a little. I mentioned that I carry a firearm everywhere I legally can, I also wanted to know what protections were in place to protect me from unfounded accusations, and I expressed how I couldn’t be with a Little if his father had been forcibly removed from his life because of the vindictive actions of the mother. I think the final one sealed my fate however. I’m not particularly upset at being rejected because after looking into it more, the activities deemed appropriate to do with your Little seem somewhat feminine, but it just further hammers home that even when you try to help because there are boys out there screaming for some positive male role models in there lives, you’re only allowed to show them masculine things that females deem are appropriate. It just makes me sick.
Yeah, because it has nothing to do with the fact that you said you would carry a gun around the kid, or suggested you might be accused of assaulting him and that the organization would need to stand up for you, or that you don’t want to help any children whose mother is divorced. It’s just so amazing how they don’t understand how screwed up they sound to everybody else. This is perfectly reasonable to the guy and the other forum members. -_- Also, he doesn’t sound like he cares about helping boys at all. It’s all about him, his hatred of divorced mothers, his need to carry a gun, his paranoia of “unfounded accusations”, and that the organization should stand up for his ‘rights’ over those of the child. He doesn’t come off as somebody who really cares about the kid he’d be helping, just somebody who wanted to do something to make himself feel good.
It is sad though that we don’t have more men volunteering and trying to help in these programs. :( (Though, not the MRAs, they would be so toxic for the kids.)
I’m fucking blown away. Blown away. Fucking asshole MRAs.
A Voice For Men, one of the most prominent men’s rights websites out there, advocates for women who are being sexually harassed to “envision the person talking to [them] as human” and to thank them.
The new civil rights movement has truly arrived.
Men’s Rights activists: Just want women to be nicer to the men who sexually harass them. Is that so much to ask?
Oh god this is so fucking disgusting
This makes me sick.
the comments tho
jesus fucking christ
this stupid picture is making me lose it right now
Whenever I see some fedora-wearing dudebro whining about how all the feminazis and friend-zoning bitches ruined his life, I picture this:
Unpopular opinion: I honestly don’t understand why feminism and men’s rights advocacy can’t/won’t coexist and work together to solve problems instead of what they do now. Y’all could do so much better.
The reason is quite simple: the MRM is a reactionary movement that exists purely to oppose feminism. If you’re thinking that many achievements of feminism also help men, then you’re on the right track, and I can understand why it seems like the two can work together. But when one group exists entirely to oppose another, the chances of them working together start out slim and only go lower with the behavior of MRAs.